Who Holds The Key To Your Love Lock?
I Wanted Truth!
He never even looked twice…
We’ve all been weakened by incoming kryptonite (hotness) when our desire and need to be loved is so intense, it clouds, distorts and even destroys what love actually looks like.
We become delusional, even fanatical, of what Love really is. Our actions start mirroring conduct similar to the Energizer bunny demanding “Love me, love me, love me” right into the sunset.
Can I hear awkward?
We become so desperate for love, that we get right in its face and proclaim, “What about me? I need to be seen, to be desired, TO BE LOVED!”
To Be or Not To Be?
To be or not to be, that is the question. Literally!
Is love a feeling or an action?
Selfish, worldly love says love is a feeling (fleeting), not a selfless act. In truth, love is a decision/choice to act.
We Get To Love…
God gave, and gave so freely (John 3:16).
What happens when Romeo is on the horizon and you have lived in your head for so long watching “your script,” that the frames of reality don’t match up with the projection you see?
Here your moment finally shines TO BE, but you blind him with all your preconceived fanatics as to how love is supposed to be.
That delectable fantasy where you’re expecting to be seen, to be embraced, to be swept literally off of your feet as you’re twirled about and kissed passionately being ever-so-desired is nowhere to be found!
That’s when he runs right past you without even as much as a hint of a raised eyebrow or the infamous nod saying, “What’s up?”
Hello!!! Can I hear Rejection for our Protection?
The bulk of our sulk engages in a pity party for ONE! No one is invited to be a part of our drunk and funk wrapped tightly around our gallon of Haagen-Dazs ice cream and Butterfinger shavings. That’s a Blizzard, baby!
Then regurgitated liquid pain announces its arrival between spilled over salty tears from chasers of Tequila (To-Kill-Ya) and the crime of the lime removing all blinders and resounding reminders of…
…we are loved more than we will ever know by Someone who died to know us (paraphrasing Romans 5:8).
I have hung a love lock or two in my lifetime, but only one remains. Knowing that someone was willing to die JUST TO KNOW ME, well, that is the one Who holds my heart key and where my heart is devoted. The One who will never LEAVE ME nor FORSAKE ME!
Love is always flowing and always changing!
Love is an action. It affords us with a choice. Since it’s fluid, we get to make the decision to love and to receive. Love is “TO BE” that love. To be requires action with a decision. We have the choice to act and to receive.
To Be The Love!
When love is to be, love will never fail! I dare you to LOVE! Love is patient and kind. Love does not envy. Love is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its way and forgives (so hard!). Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never ends (1 Corinthians 13:1-8).
Have we romanticized love so much that we forgot love is an action and not a feeling?
Love is “To Be” that Love
When I start demanding I need to be loved, that is my trigger screaming I am lacking intimacy with my Lord. God designed us to be loved, but primarily by Him meeting our every need first.
We are much better spouses, present and available friends when we know and walk in His Great Love. We’re less needy, selfish and demanding…
When You Need To Be Loved
I’m the first to admit that I’m needy for love; God’s love! I need to hide myself in my Lord’s Love often so my love tank can be full.
After all, like Augustine said, “God loves each of us as if there were only one of us.” Now, that’s the liquid courage and LOVE needed for every day!
When I’m falling into the pits of depression, discouragement and doubt, I go to passages and pray them out loud… “Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I lift up my soul” (Psalm 143:8).
Knowing I am loved by someone who died to know “just me,” what a shot of confidence and boost of courage to face each and every day.
We get to be loved!
Next time you need “To Be Loved,” be that love first!
Until next time…